Shifting Roles in the Front Seat
I came across a cartoon online: it shows a man driving while the woman in the passenger seat has a seatbelt wrapped over her mouth. Some see it as sexist, and that perspective is understandable. But looking at it through a generational lens, I saw something more:
Of course, these shifts don’t look the same everywhere. The timing and intensity vary significantly between cultures, and not everyone fits the mold. Personality plays a huge role in how we show up, regardless of generation. Some women have always been quiet, while some men have always been more expressive.
Still, the general dynamics of who speaks, who drives, and who decides have been evolving. The pace and intensity might differ, but the shift is shared in one way or another.
So, is the cartoon wrong? It may convey a certain gender stereotype that many find problematic and controversial. While it doesn’t represent everyone — especially not today — it can still serve as a starting point to consider how much has changed over time. Whether it’s Grandma quietly riding along, Mom offering her thoughts, or a Millennial couple sharing the wheel in more ways than one, the car is a small space where bigger generational changes quietly unfold.
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